“No thanks, I’ve already got a guy”.  Ever heard that one?  Sure you have.  “We’ve got a guy”. “We looooved your presentation, but we’re already working with someone”.  “We’re really impressed, it looks like you could help us a ton and you seem like such a nice person, but the truth is, we’ve got a guy.”  “Thanks so much for saving our daughter from that burning building, and the family dog too…but we’re already working with someone.”  We’ve got a guy.

It doesn’t matter what industry, those are four of the crumbiest little words you can ever hear when you’re selling.  “We’ve got a guy”.   Or a Gal.  Doesn’t matter.  Let me know if you’ve heard that in the course of your career.

Deadly.  And what makes this particular objection so infuriating is the very nature of it.  At the essence of that remark is the suggestion that you are identical to their guy.  It’s the idea that since you have a career title that’s exactly like their guy, you two must be identical twins in terms of your capability, your experience, compassion or skill.  The perception, gang, is that you are like a toaster; hey, I’ve already got one of those and I don’t need two of them.  You are a financial advisor? well I already have one. You are a CPA? I already have one of those.   You sell insurance?  Well, we’ve got plenty.  Tucked inside that little remark is the insinuation that there is absolutely no difference between you and what you offer and someone or something they think they already have and “since you’re all alike”…there really is no compelling reason for them change.

The secret here is that most of us tend to bury the lead when we talk about ourselves and what we do.  Most of us share information that’s pretty useless to the listener.  We talk about what we do and what we have and oddly expect our listener to understand what that has to do with them.  It’s not that we’re lazy, just a little dumb sometimes.

Here is how most of us were taught.  This is the structure almost everyone was trained in typical sales training. “Hey, you ask me what I do for a living so I’m going to answer you. I’m going to tell you about myself and ‘what I do’.  Why wouldn’t I?”  And to make it interesting I’ll use some gimmick or another to jazz it up.

The funny thing about it is, people don’t care.  Do you care?  Are you typically impressed with that crap?  I thought not.  When it happens to me I mistake it for nap time and tend to nod off.

Here’s the deal: People aren’t exactly lying when they ask you what you do but they’re not being 100% truthful when they ask that question either.  The question they really want to ask you is, “what can you do for me?”  But in polite conversation we just don’t ask that of each other.  Hey, what could you do for me?  They say, “so what do you do?”  And we then tell them while they smile patiently at us and wait for us to stop talking so they can go get something to eat or check their phones, right?

So what goes on in our brains when someone asks us, “what do you do”?  We think, well, I want to answer them, so I’m going to tell them first about what industry I’m in. “I’m an insurance adviser” And then there’s this little voice in the back of our head that goes, “ah crap, I have to do better than that! I sound like everyone else.” So we proceed to talk about all the services that we have or the products that we deliver and try to make it sound interesting and it just sounds more complicated and more tiresome.  I see it all the time; it feels like the right thing to do.  People think they’re helping.  Someone has asked us, what we do?  And we tell them what we do.  OK, let me tell you right now, no one really cares.

And the listener, what are they interested in?  Well, just like you, they’re interested in themselves.  So what do we do about that?  Well, we flip this structure over and instead of talking about us we talk about people like them that we serve.  Talking about them is the only thing that’ll hold their attention.  And so that’s our model.

The top 1/4% producers know something that a lot of folks miss and it’s really simple.  Through well-intentioned but really inaccurate information, a lot of folks have been taught to share about themselves, to serve the listener by sharing so much about what they think or what they have or what they do.  And no one really cares.  They’re not really that interested.  What they really want you to do is cut to the chase and tell them what they get.  You cannot bury the lead when you communicate, and “what they get” IS the lead.  The lead is the transformation that you create for them.  That’s what we’re interested in.  We’re all just self-interested human beings and what we want to know is how we can be transformed by what you’re offering.

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You are part of a unique community of individuals; you are an entrepreneur.

You share a heritage with the outliers and independent thinkers, innovators and contrarians stretching far back into our national history.  Our country was built on the principles of entrepreneurism and the spirit of discovery.   The bedrock of capitalism is the spirit of independence, self-reliance and self-advancement through risk, innovation and value creation.  Those who came before us built an oasis of freedom: a free market where better will almost always out-flank bigger.

The first documented American entrepreneur was John Rolfe, a British colonist to New England.  In 1610 Rolfe landed at the Jamestown colony.  He found it mostly deserted after the “Starving Time” had decimated the colonists and left only 60 alive, but he was able to build a home and settle in.  Rolfe brought with him contraband he had smuggled out of the Spanish colonies: tobacco seeds.  He quickly set about planting and harvesting them in the rich Virginia soil and consequently launched the first successful business venture in the New World.  Rolfe is credited with saving the colony, building Jamestown into a boomtown and yes, marrying Pocahontas.

As an entrepreneur, you’re a part of that heritage.

Ben Franklin wasn’t merely a statesman and Founding Father as you may know.  He was also one of the wealthiest men in the colonies, having gotten quite rich as a printer.  Now consider the genius:  He created his Poor Richard’s Almanac, full of his wisdom, human insight and political satire.  He then mass-produced it through “affiliate” printers that ran his franchise print shops up and down the Eastern seaboard.  Finally, he delivered it direct to households in the colonies through the nation’s first national postal system…which he developed.

You’re a part of that heritage.

Richard Warren Sears was a railroad station agent in North Redwood, Minn.  He received a shipment of watches from a jeweler out of Chicago, Ill., which the local merchant refused to accept. Sears purchased the watches himself, sold them for a profit and ordered more to resell along the rail line. Leveraging his capital and the newly developed railway system, he started a business selling watches through mail order catalogues. The next year, he moved to Chicago, met Alvah C. Roebuck, and by 1895, the company was producing a 532-page catalog with sales exceeding $750,000 dollars.  Sears and Roebuck became the world’s largest mail order catalog company and fueled westward expansion into the interior.  It took him all of two years to make it happen.

You’re a part of that heritage, too.

These three revolutionizing entrepreneurs perfectly profile the type of person that forged our national identity, but we’re just scratching the surface.  The list of famous names in our country’s history is a veritable who’s who of entrepreneurism and the promise of the American dream.  What about P.T Barnum?  Louis B. Mayer?  How about Charles Schwab, J.P Morgan, Walt Disney, Ray Croc, Mary Kay Ash, Steve Jobs, Sam Walton, Ralph Lauren or Oprah Winfrey?  The list is endless if we also consider the entrepreneurs who struck out alone, left the plow in the field or crossed oceans to come to this country and build small businesses that never became household names. They too built the nation and they too are your heritage.

As an entrepreneur, you are a unique type of person and when armed with the right tools; can move mountains, shape the world and put a dent in the universe.  You’re a part of the lineage of wild-men, pioneers and daredevils that forged new paths into our American landscape.  You’re an entrepreneur and no one is quite like you.  The wisdom you possess, the insights that you’ve acquired and the unique filter of your personal life experiences, background, worldview and passions create a particular set of insights unlike anyone else’s on the planet.   Like a thumbprint, your wisdom is yours alone.  Aligned with your purpose, capital, daring and capabilities, you can be the most formidable force on the planet and the most compelling energy in the universe: pure potential.

When it comes to marketing and sales, I discovered a simple and durable model for looking at all of the world’s actions and activities.    Employing audacity, leverage or persistence is essentially how anyone sells anything.  It’s like a secret code.  Once you unlock it, you’ll see everything you do through the lens.  Why do you care?  Because having a better understanding of what assets you posses and how to position, market and sell your value is an incredible responsibility you have and a very exciting opportunity.

When we are looking at Sales and Marketing, I subscribe to the “Lead Generation, Lead Conversion, and Fulfillment” school of thought.  Those three distinct activities have their own nature and needs.  Looking at Lead Generation only, we can employ the sales trio of Audacity, Leverage and Persistence for maximum impact.  I’ll explain how…

Audacity:  When it comes to getting in the room, what’s really over the top?  If we’re talking about a high profile opportunity and you have no connections to facilitate a meeting you’re in cold calling land.  That is essentially the Siberia of selling and if you’ve ever made cold calls you know that there are only a few things as frightening.  On the other hand, cold calling puts hair on your chest (whether or not you want it there is an entirely different matter).

Where audacity comes in is through the application of over-the -top tactics to get in the room.  These can be anything from sending a four foot porcelain elephant to the client’s office with a note that reads, “should we talk about the elephant in the room?” or a can of oil with a little message that reads, “let’s grease the skids on next years program” or like one of my clients who sent a dozen high end remote control cars with her logo on them to a floor of young bankers.  The note read, “Just like with Mackey Advisors, the batteries are included.”  The point here is that a little audacity can get you noticed.  It’s fun, it’s uncommon and if what you need is a meeting then why not get it aggressively?

I have one client who chatted with me about his close ratio with big accounts – 50%.  Then he shared about the average engagement with these larger accounts – $100,000/yr.  I asked him what he would be willing to spend to make a deal and his answer was 10%.  So we had, according to my math, $5000 per qualified lead to spend.  We could send postcards until the cows came home but instead he rented a Ferrari and sent a courier upstairs to the CEO’s office with a note and the keys that read, “if you would like to test drive a performance machine, meet me downstairs for a spin around the block”.  A little risky?  Yes.  Over the top?  To some.  Audacious? You betcha.  But when we are all competing for attention you have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone and get out there.

Persistence:  When I started in sales I could make only a certain number of calls a day.  My process was to reach out to as many people as possible, try to move a “suspect” to become a “prospect” (or eliminate them) and then a prospect to a qualified lead (or eliminate them).  It wasn’t rocket science but it required diligence and large numbers, all of which were limited by my being human.  Because of the nature of this type of dynamic I was motivated for a binary decision – I drove to a “yes, I’m possibly in” or to a “no, I’m not interested.”  In our dysfunctional world we craved no’s as much as yes’s because it meant we could spend less time wasting ourselves with the wrong people and more time on the folks that could become buyers.  But do you see what’s wrong with that?

People buy for their own reasons, on their own time schedules.  Instead of moving to a binary model, we should have moved to “maybe”.  As crazy as it sounds, a permission-based connection over a long period of time based on a “maybe” can be a more powerful opportunity than a solid yes or no.  Why?  Because it means at some point that “maybe” is going to get hot and when they do you’re their go-to person if you are in front of them at the right time.  Can you do this on the phone?  Nope.  Can you do it through advertising or direct mail?  Not unless you’re sitting on some serious dough.

Enter the magic of technology.

With new solutions like InfusionSoft and even less tech savvy ones like Aweber and even Constant Contact, we now can stay in front of a pool of thousands of “maybes” waiting for when they are in a buying mood.  This is great news for when we really just want to let the clients come to us on their own terms and timing.  The secret: build up your database and just drip on them with content that isn’t too obnoxious to make them unsubscribe from your list.  Create some value, always ask for the sale and stay at it slow and steady.

Leverage:  Last but not least and probably the most obvious and intuitive.  Leverage is a wonderful thing.  When someone brings you in and endorses you it’s the fastest and most enjoyable path to success.  Simply put, you can shorten sales cycles, extend the scope of work and move faster to a place of real trust (and value creation hopefully) because you’ve been able to enjoy the leveraged trust built by another party.

Direct referrals are the most obvious choice and can be obtained in several ways that everyone has already read about.  The problem with asking for referrals for most people I meet seems to come down to the asking part.  We’re surrounded by good ideas about how to do it, but no one wants to do it.  One of the best ways I’ve ever heard was to simply ask the client, “what would have to happen for you to feel good enough about our working relationship to consider making a referral?”  It’s a soft opening with a clear message, “I’ll work for it but want to know, up front, that we’re talking about the same thing.”  Clear, direct and nowhere in the neighborhood with, “write down the seven people you know who will work with me or I will not let you out of this room”.

Leverage.  Audacity.  Persistence.  Your little power-pack of sales and marketing strategies.  The trick is to do something and do it well.  Pick your horse and ride it and whatever you do, don’t back-off, chicken-out or get cold feet.  Nine out of ten times the sale is won by the person who shows up and is simply able to ask for it!

A bit of wisdom I’ve learned from observing our entrepreneur clients is a dirty little secret we call The Seven Deadly Sins of Implementation.  Sometimes even great entrepreneurs fail and this is often where they do.  Now, it should come as no shock to you but there is never going to be a shortage of good ideas.  Where things fall apart is in the “getting things done” department.  Those are the barbs that sting.

These are the seven most prevalent failings of the entrepreneurs we meet when it comes to innovation implementation, no matter how successful.  Looking directly at them will dramatically enhance your ability to steer clear.

Deadly Sin #1:  No sense of self

Painful as it is, the leading cause of frustration with the entrepreneurs that fail in execution is that they don’t select projects well.  They don’t know what they are or aren’t capable of actually pulling off and so they fail.  They don’t see themselves as they actually are; don’t know what they seek and they don’t know what they would fight for.  They select and invest in innovations with very little respect for the impact they will have on their lives, their team’s time or the experience their clients will have.  A blind man poking around in the dark is a tragedy, but it’s also dangerous for everyone involved.  Don’t let this be you.

Deadly Sin #2:  No vision of the future

Correlative to Sin #1 but not identical is a lack of vision.  Without a sense of where one is heading, having self-knowledge is wasted.  It’s when you point your skis downhill and attack the mountain that your insight about what you can or cannot manage comes into play.   A friend of mine who skis a great deal once told me that the fastest way to crash when you are skiing is to stare at whatever it is you don’t want to hit – a tree, a person, a big jump you cannot land.  The trick is to aim your gaze at where you want to go, not where you don’t and you’re body will follow.  And for those poor souls without a plan or a vision of their future, they will constantly seek salvation in the latest gimmicks, tech gadgets and products.   Beware.

Deadly Sin #3:  No constraints

This one is often misleading.  My entrepreneurs who have constraint issues are usually a lot of fun.  These folks often say yes to a lot and have little sense of when to slow down or stop.  They invest emotionally and can change their mind based on whoever was the last person to speak with them.  Look out for trouble here.  Without constraints you can very easily fly off the mountain, take a jump you cannot manage or roll down a canyon and never been seen again.  Set clear boundaries and observe them.

Deadly Sin #4:  No plan

All plans fail the moment the first bullet is fired, right?  Interestingly enough, this is often the line repeated by the guy or gal who hates to plan.  It’s not ever a good idea to fail to set a roadmap for where you want to go.  “Hope” is not a plan.  Having expectations that others will do the right thing is a form of insanity best left to the institutionalized.  Every skier knows the slope or at least has a game plan for how they will address the bumps along the way.

Deadly Sin #5:  No communication

Often the fan of “winging it” commits this sin too.  Somehow in this person’s head is the idea that they can possibly achieve results without constant and proactive communication.  Often this person is alarmed and shocked that other people aren’t always clear about what they are doing or how. Leaders must communicate their expectations and invite communication from the people accountable for results.  And while we’re at it…

Deadly Sin #6: No accountability

It’s pretty hard to make progress when no one owns projects, tasks or deadlines.  If these aren’t agreed to up front, no one gets anything done.  Face it, you’re busy.  Your people are busy.  And in my experience they seldom get the chance to see the big picture enough to fully understand and get excited about why you are making this change or that or investing in this new thingy or other.  For them, work is work and new, poorly defined work goes to the bottom of the list.  Make an accountability outline of who’s doing what and when and you’ll see stuff get done like nobody’s business.

Deadly Sin #7:  No agility

The entrepreneur who is impeccable with the previous six Sins can often struggle here.  This person is diligent.  They are focused.  They plan, they act and they get stuff done.  What they sometimes do, however, is get emotionally attached to the work rather than to the outcomes.  Things are moving pretty fast these days.  If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.  It’s not improbable that you could have your head down plugging away at a project and look up six months later to congratulate yourself and find out that it’s now irrelevant.  You have to be able to pivot and the person with Deadly Sin #7 is usually the last one to notice someone moved the mountain.

The truth is, we all suffer from each of The Seven from time to time.  The advice I offer is to grow in your awareness, reach out and communicate with the people on your team to help them help you!  and most importantly – get clear about who you are, where you are going and WHAT your function is.  Want more help?  Go here and download the free Wisdom Harvest Tool:  http://www.thewisdomlink.com/wisdomharvest/wisdom_harvest_tool.php

Here’s an idea I’ve been working on for a while, a thesis I’ve been watching and tracking for a few years to see if it will bear out…And it has.  I see this idea showing up almost every week with the clients we serve.  And the idea is simple, relatively innocuous and deceptively intriguing:  in the face of all this technology we’ve started to exalt those things that make us uniquely human.  “Human” is, in fact, the killer app. for business value creation.

There’s “no use fighting city Hall” the old expression goes.   And as it pertains to trying to outperform technology, there is no competition.  It’s over.  We lost.  When it comes to computational ability, those damned computers have us beat every time.  You’ve heard the sound bite, “there is more technology in my watch than NASA needed to land a guy on the moon.”   We’ve known it for a long time but we’ve been in denial.  I can still remember that movie with Matthew Broderick, War Games from 1982.  The classic cautionary tale from the people who were saying “computers are scary”.  Remember?  They weren’t really right but the point was simple:  People need to be running the show.

It started with the promise of the industrial age.  We wanted to automate, we wanted to streamline and we wanted to mass-produce.  And America got really good at it.  So it’s no big surprise that we dominated in the technology boom both in innovation as well as mass production.  We rock when it comes to leveraging technology to accelerate results.  But it’s simply making people nuts trying to keep up in industries that have been directly or indirectly touched by the pace, precision and power of technology.

So if you are trying to sell more policies than a website forget about it.  If you think you’ll EVER be faster or more accurate than an online ordering system you’re kidding yourself.  But there is great news, there’s room for something else.  What we’ve seen is a shift coming from the professional services folks that come to us to slow down the transacting of product to improve the quality of the relationship…and they are getting paid for it.

Top tier pro’s who have so much to lose trying to play the game of the “commoditized” are finding new arenas to compete and thrive…and it’s not about doing more, faster.  Their secret?  Exalt the human.  Accentuate the emotional, empathize, listen and employ connections with storytelling.  The secret is to be human in the face of all this technology.  The secret is to connect on a level that cannot ever be replaced with a screen or through an inhuman exchange of data.